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If You Plant It, They Will Come (Gardening for Butterflies)

If you want to see more butterflies in your yard,  you must do a little research: common butterflies for your area, host plants, and nectar plants. Gardening can take some time and practice, but the investment is totally worth it. Not only will you see more butterfly activity, but the work you put into it is good for your physical and mental health!

STEP ONE: A critical first step, BEFORE you invest in seeds or plants for your garden, research what butterflies are common in your area. You can start by spending some time identifying the butterflies you see in and around your area. I’d also suggest investing in field guides and books specific to your area. Lastly, if you have a good local nursery (hopefully an organic one) they will likely be able to give you good guidance.  Speaking of organic, if you want to attract butterflies and caterpillars to your garden, you should stop using all pesticides in your garden.

The field guide pictured below is particularly helpful because it shows the butterfly, caterpillar, host plant/s, season, and size.

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STEP TWO: Research what the host plants are for the butterflies common in your area. For example, if the Gulf Fritillary butterfly is common for your area, you’ll want to plant passionvine. Let me back up for just a sec and explain what a host plant is.  A host plant is the plant a butterfly will deposit her eggs on. The host plant is the plant a caterpillar will eat while it’s growing. Some caterpillars have multiple host plants, however, some have only one.  If you live in Southeast Texas and/or the Texas Gulf Coast area, these are a few of the common butterflies for our area and their host plants:

Butterfly                                              Host Plant

Monarch                                              Milkweed

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Gulf Fritillary                                      Passionvine

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Black Swallowtail                              Dill (pictured), parsley, rue, fennel,

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Giant Swallowtail                             Citrus, rue (pictured), prickly-ash

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Pipevine Swallowtail                       Pipevine (aristolochia)

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STEP THREE: In order to attract adult butterflies, you’ll want to plant lots of nectar plants.  The nectar plants that I’ve had the most success with in our area are those that are easy to maintain (because I’m still a novice and I’m busy – who isn’t?) and plants that are fairly drought tolerant (because it’s HOT in Texas!).

Zinnias – My #1 pick, is by far the best nectar plant I’ve had in my butterfly garden. However, a bit of advice (from my experience)… never buy zinnia plants from the store, plant seeds instead. Every time I’ve bought a zinnia plant from a store they dry out and die, and I’ve NEVER seen butterflies nectar on them. However, every time I’ve planted a zinnia seed, they grow quickly, are beautiful, very long lasting, and the butterflies LOVE them. I’d suggest the Cut-and-Come-Again or California State Fair/Giants. The zinnias with the “little yellow flowers” inside of the flower head are the preferred choice for butterflies, and the larger the “landing pad” the larger the butterflies that land on it.

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Lantana – My 2nd favorite butterfly nectar plant. Butterflies LOVE this plant, as well as some nice moth varieties such as the hummingbird moth. This plant WILL NOT DIE – you seriously would have to have a black thumb to kill this plant. In our area it’s a perennial.  It’s super drought tolerant, beautiful little clusters of flowers, and it’s a show stopper. Most lantana varieties are shrubs, so you’ll need ample space for them, and you’ll need to trim them a few times a year. Some varieties grow very tall, some are smaller and mound like, and some are trailing. Be sure to buy the type of plant that will work well in your space and plan ahead – and that they will get lots of SUN! The more sun, the more booms you’ll have.

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Pentas – Okay, actually this is a tie for 2nd – pentas are like a little saloon for butterflies and hummingbird love them too.Pentas are also very drought tolerant, and they are a perennial for our area as well. They come in pink, hot pink, red, and white.


Plumbago – This little shrub will have beautiful light green leaves and the most gorgeous periwinkle colored flowers. I’ve found that the swallowtails in particular seem to really like to nectar on this flower.

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Others plants to consider that I like too: Buddleia “Butterfly Bush”, Gregg’s Mistflower, Buttonbush, honeysuckle, verbena, tithonia “Mexican Sunflower”, Mexican Flame Vine, Vitex, Autumn Sage, Mealy Sage, and Salvia.  Last but not least, Tropical Milkweed is also a great nectar plant, but most recognized as the host plant of choice for Monarchs.

Other food sources for butterflies: fermenting fruit, tree sap, carrion, and muddy puddles/wet sand.

 I hope you give gardening for butterflies a try! Best wishes for a beautiful garden with beautiful visitors 🙂















I’ve Been Bit by the Butterfly Bug

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Many friends (and friends of friends) have asked me, “How can I learn more too?” So here’s the next chapter of my story. Truthfully, I still consider myself quite the novice. I’m happily learning more and more each day, and happy to share what I’ve found out so far.

I started with a few books, then researched on the internet, and ultimately cultivated personal connection with other butterfly people. I just knew I couldn’t be the only person who had been bit by the butterfly bug (and no, they don’t really bite).

Our first butterfly book in the collection, How to Raise Monarch Butterflies by Carol Pasternak, was our everyday instruction manual when raising Rosey. It’s a great book for the whole family that is specific to raising Monarchs. I highly recommend it!

Other good butterfly books I would recommend:

A Swift Guide to Butterflies of North America, by Jeffrey Glassberg

Butterflies of Houston & Southeast Texas, by John & Gloria Tveten

Butterflies and Moths (Golden Guide), by Robert T. Mitchell and Herbert S. Zim

The Family Butterfly Book, by Rick Mikula

Field Guides  are a MUST HAVE if you are going on butterfly hikes and want to identify what you see:

Butterflies of Southeast Texas and the Upper Texas Coast, John & Gloria Tveten

Texas Butterflies & Moths, by James Kavanagh and Raymond Leung

Butterflies of South Texas including the Lower Rio Grande Valley, by Roland “Ro” Wauer and Jim Brock

In addition to the books and guides, I wanted to learn from other butterfly experts and enthusiasts.  I have nearly 15 years of experience in the recruiting and staffing industry, so naturally I did what I know how to do best….network. I linked up to people and joined groups on Facebook to further my knowledge. Everyone I’ve met online has been extremely nice and willing to teach and share the joy of butterflying.

Facebook and Blogging Butterfly Experts that I follow:

Carol Pasternak/The Monarch Crusader

Edith Smith /Shady Oak Butterfly Farm

Monika Moore/California Butterfly Lady

Brenda Dziedzic/Brenda’s Butterfly Habitat

Suzanne Tilton/The Butterfly Lady

Butterfly Enthusiasts of Southeast Texas (group)

Butterfly Enthusiasts (group)

The National Butterfly Center

Monika Maeckle/ Texas Butterfly Ranch (blog)






Why Butterfly?

Why Butterfly?

I’m asked quite frequently, “How’d you get started into all this butterfly stuff anyway?” So here’s my story! I’m mom to a gorgeous and sweet 8 year old girl named Bridgita, cute and cuddly 5 year old boy named Blaise, and stepmom to a handsome and kind 20 year old young man named Bryce. Oh yeah… and a wonderful husband, Hector, whom I love dearly. We will be celebrating 13 years of marriage this May.

It all started at the soccer fields. Bryce played on a competitive select team. We drove near and far for as many games and tournaments as we could. The tournaments were especially long hours (sometimes ALL day events), and his little brother and sister were very little and had very short attention spans. Hector and I would pack an arsenal of things to keep them occupied.  We had everything including LeapFrog games, books, coloring books, and the list goes on. But what the kids really enjoyed most was going on butterfly hikes with their nets and habitats in the next to and behind the soccer fields. They would collect butterflies, ladybugs, and the occasional lizards too. This was great because they loved it and Hector and I could focus on the game! That’s when our family started a love affair with butterflies.

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Now that’s how it started, but what really sealed the marriage to our butterflying interests was very special Monarch named Rosey.  We had recently bought a tiny milkweed plant that was a “leftover” from the HMNS (Houston Museum of Natural Science) plant sale in the late Fall of 2012. Honestly, I wasn’t even 100% sure it was milkweed because there wasn’t a label on it. We took it home planted it, and started researching Monarchs so that we would know what to look for. We looked at pictures of eggs, caterpillars, etc. Low and behold, Bridgita spotted an egg. I couldn’t believe it! How’d she see something so small, the size of a pen tip? She checked that egg every day and then one day said, “Mommy, mommy, the egg hatched and there’s a tiny caterpillar!” What? Really? Yes, really! Uh oh… it was the week of Christmas by this time and we were getting a “cold front” with possible freezing temps. What to do? Honey… I need you to dig up the milkweed plant and bring it inside so we can raise this caterpillar. My sweet husband obliged the request. Bridgita was invested in this little caterpillar and had even named her Rosey – and you know how that goes, once you name it, you keep it.  We documented Rosey’s every move and even had a “fan club” on Facebook that were tracking her developments and cheering her on.

We got super lucky because Rosey grew up a healthy caterpillar and emerged as a healthy beautiful Monarch Butterfly on January 28, 2013. We made a super big deal about her birthday and even threw her a birthday party. Yes you read that right –  a party for the butterfly…we were totally enamored with this butterfly! The kids invited all of their friends, we decorated, had cupcakes, and the whole shebang…It was really fun and special.

To this day, I haven’t seen a Monarch bigger than Rosey. I honestly think that it was all the special love and attention that we gave her here.

Butterflying has been a wonderful hobby for our entire family and something we are all equally interested in.  Butterflies have been a blessing for our family to say the least!

Fast forward, the last year and a half has been a fun whirlwind of butterflying learning and adventures for our family, and I’m excited to share our knowledge with you, so stay tuned for more about our butterflying journey!

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